For your blog this week, think of someone (e.g., family member, celebrity, politician, friend, or professor) who demonstrates competent communication within a particular context. What behaviors does this person exhibit that make him or her effective? Would you want to model some of your own communication behaviors after this person? Why or why not?
The person that demonstrates competent communication is my father. He is a retired principal now but when I would watch him work I could see that his communication was effective with the students as well as his teachers. My father was the principal at my school so growing up I had it tough. One thing my father had with everyone he came into contact with is respect from his employees and his students. They knew what he expected and they also knew that he cared. He was always there to listen. I have always looked up to my father (I am a big daddy’s girl J). I try to model the person that he is and the morals that my dad shows. I try to communicate with my co-workers and the families that I come into contact with much like him. I want them to know where I stand but also to feel that they can come to my about anything.
Karen,
ReplyDeleteI hope to be as much of an inspiration to my own children as your dad is to you! What in particular makes him such a successful communicator?
Marie Walkow
Hi Karen,
ReplyDeleteI think it is wonderful that you had your father as a perfect role model. I am glad that he communicated well with his staff and the students of his school.
Thank you for the comments on my blog and I hope the advice that Mr. Kights gave me will continue to help you.
That is fantastic! It's good to hear that the students and staff respected him. He must have taught you some great communication and leadership techniques.
ReplyDeleteKaren,
ReplyDeleteRespect is a crucial factor in communication. For as long there is mutual respect people are able to express themselves freely and know that their opinion is respected although may not be agreed with. Knowing that you are respected at your work place motivates the employees to do their best and feel affiliation.
By the way you and your father look a lot like each other. You certainly have the same smile! :)
Karen, a recurring description I keep hearing or reading about effective communicators is good listener. It is not until now, that I realize, I must improve my listening skills to become a better and effective communicator! And yes, you are a carbon copy of your dad! Thanks for sharing...
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